BE REALISTIC, ESTABLISH OBJECTIVES

If you spent the last years 5,10,20,30 embittered his life, angry at everyone and everything, cursing their luck, their source, who spoke ill of you at least know and dwell on what did not worked in the past, BELIEVE, you will still take a long time to CLEAN UP!
This habit you have and what is not good, you will create difficulties in getting the things you crave. But there is a solution! Start practicing, instead, at this moment what you have done more assiduously. For example, if you have the habit of not listening to people, go to hear them, pay attention, be polite, have good thoughts, do not curse your past, your parents, your country, set a goal to be totally the opposite of which has been so far.
Turn, pass e.mail, write, seek that person who hurt you and apologize, take passage on the road, do not yell at anyone, understands the people. Start practicing it now, because all these years of revolt within him, and certainly can create stains on your life.
Start practicing now and change your attitude, it still takes time and ask God Almighty, that illuminate this endeavor, but you're done!
BELIEVE!